How can I avoid making mistakes with my partners?

Whoever loves attentively knows this worry: this time, I want to do better. How can I avoid making mistakes with my partner — the old patterns, the quarrels that repeat themselves, the words that cannot be taken back?

This reading looks at you, not at the other person. Choose three cards from the major arcana; they are read as a whole: the pattern you bring into relationships, the sore point where things usually tip over, and the path to doing it differently. The Chariot warns of something different here than the Empress or the Hanged Man.

An honest look, without blaming anyone: that is what this question exists for. Change begins with what we understand about ourselves.